PandaBear responded August 21, 2008 at 11:37AM

  Hugs are my secret weapon.

It's hard to blend families, but the efforts and example you are showing all your children will make a big impact. You'll see! Stay strong!

  wildmom responded August 22, 2008 at 9:54AM

  if mom ain't happy, ain't nobody happy

I'm sorry to hear the ex is a pian- ecstatic to hear you've been there for them since they were in diapers! they'll know you loved them all along, no matter what the other mommy says...I had this growing up and it's exhausting on the kids. if she can realize that, it would be much better. keep it up though!

  Sticky_Mommy responded August 22, 2008 at 10:30AM

  I love my job, it gives me a break from my kids!

Bravo for you! You are taking the high road. My parents were divorced and the best thing they did for me was not to talk poorly about the other in front of me. Remember no matter how bad it gets, that is still their Mom. You are showing the kids what it means to be a grown up!

  benbaby responded August 31, 2008 at 12:07AM

  Goofing around with my babies - Big and Lil

You are really sweet. Kids will realize that at some point. Take it easy and continue your good deed.